How To Build a Harem In 8 Easy Steps


Today I’m sharing with you a simple process to start building up your base of fuck buddies. With this process, you can literally get as many FB’s as you can handle, AND it can be done in a relatively short period of time.  This is EXACTLY what I did to build my own “harem,” and like I always say, if I can do it, anyone can.

Step 1:  Get your OWN place

If you do not live on your own for financial or other reasons, make it your number ONE priority.  Start taking action immediately by doing whatever needs to be done in order to make that happen.  You should TRY your best to get a place that is as close as possible to a very good nightlife district.  I.e. close to the good bars/clubs/restaurants. Having your logistics handled in this way will make EVERYTHING about this process exponentially easier.  IF you’re already living by yourself in your own place, congrats, you can now have a harem in only 7 steps.

Step 1A:  Lose the gut

You already know this by now.  LOOKING GOOD matters.  Again, it’s the same as the above point.  Being as PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE as possible, will make things WAY easier for you.  Download The Alpha Within Fat Loss Diet, and get it done. It’s FREE and it works! While you’re at it don’t forget about  dressing well.  If you already look “athletic” and wear fashionable clothing that fits you well, good job, down to just 6 steps for you, you fucking overachiever you.

Step 2:  Get a date

Doesn’t matter HOW you get the date, just get it.  The easiest way is online dating.  Go to POF and start messaging women.  As many as it takes.  Don’t try to be their “friend.” or sit around chit chatting with them for hours at a time.  Yes, I understand you might have to spend a little time convincing her you’re not a psycho killer, but other than that, PUSH for the date.

I go over HOW to do all this in detail in my online video course Game On. (Pro tip: Game On video series comes with all the guides included)

I really don’t care if you buy it or not.  You can learn this shit without it for sure.  It’ll take you a lot longer.  You’ll make a A LOT more mistakes, because you’ll be “winging it,” but it certainly CAN be done.

Step 3: Fuck Her

Take said woman from said date back to your place and get her IN YOUR BED.  Fuck her hard and well.  Give her as many orgasms as you possibly can.  When you’re done, politely escort her out of your place. I outline EXACTLY HOW to do this in the Dating Guide.

Step 4: Repeat Step 3

Text her the next day (if she hasn’t already text you to tell you this) and tell her you “had fun.” Proceed to follow up for a second date.  Have the second date as quickly as you possibly can.  Repeat the ending events of date 1.  In other words, doesn’t matter what it takes, fuck her a 2nd time (and just as well) as soon as possible.  Preferably within one to 3 days.

Step 5: Repeat Step 4

Note:  The only thing you should be texting (or calling) her about is logistics for your next meet.  That’s it.  Period.  No small talk.  No blathering on about unicorns and daises.  If she texts you, make like you’re busy, but looking forward to the next time you see her.

Step 6: Official Fuck Buddies

After you’ve had sex with her 2 or 3 times (to clarify, on 2 or 3 separate DAYS) start seeing her only about once a week.  And of course, continue to fuck her well EVERY time you see her.  Congratulations, you’ve gotten your first Fuck Buddy (FB). DO NOT fall “in love” with this FB!!!!!!!

Note on FB #1:  You may have sex with her twice a week UNTIL you get FB number 2.  From that point on, drop her back to one time per week, to open up time for FB #2, 3,…… on.

Step 7: Get ANOTHER Fuck Buddy

Repeat these steps with a different woman.

Step 8: Lather, Rinse, & Repeat

Repeat this process as many times as necessary to get the number of chicks you can handle in a week.

Personal Note: The most FB’s I had at one time was 5.  For me, that number was too high.  I LOVE sex, but “the chase” is almost as much fun.  Handling 5 chicks at a time left me almost too well sexed to care about much else.  It also made it difficult to see ALL of them once a week (important for retention purposes), and left me too short on time to “run game” on NEW chicks.  Which I love to do.

That’s it guys.  It really isn’t rocket surgery, BUT I know you all will have a bunch of questions.  It’s cool.  Sometimes the simplest shit is the hardest to “get.”  Just leave your questions in the comments and I’ll get them answered.

Until next time, here’s to being THE man.



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